Dearest Bag lady..i am incredibly impressed and admiring of your ability to not only talk about this trauma in a healthy and matter of fact way but also to even have some well placed and clever humour about your situation. I don’t know much about anything but i will tell you this. A strong and mature person like you will attract , in the end, the same kind of person (law of attraction or something) and that person will be able to handle and process and fit this baggage into their dealing with you. Unfortunatley, these kinds of people and men in particular are rare but they are out there and one will find you. If i know nothing else, I do know that. Also, i would think that you would not reveal this kind of info until well into the relationship, i mean when it is clearly established that this is a long term committed relationship and you feel very secure in this persons love for you. Then the baggage should not make a diff to how he feels about you. I can’t see how withholding it will materially affect how compatible and well matched you discover yourselves to be over time. I wish you nothing but the best in your future relationships. Sounds like you are going to be alright in the end.
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